Friday, September 03, 2004

Something to ponder for the weekend

I've gotten this from dream. Thanks again! ;)
It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, but what is painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for the gift.
Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion, and the romance in a relationship, and find out you still care for that person. A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that is was never meant to be and you just have to let go.
When the door of happiness closes, another door opens, but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one that has been opened for us. The best kind of friend is the kind that can sit on a porch and swing with you, never saying a word and then walk away thinking it was the best conversation you've ever had.
It's true that we don't know what we've go until we lost it, but its also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives. Giving someone all our love is never an assurance that they'll love you back. Don't expect love in return, just wait for it to grow in their hearts, but if it doesn't, then be content that it grew in yours.
There are some things you'll love to hear that you would never hear from the person whom you would like to hear it from, but remember not to be so deaf as to hear it from the one who says it from the heart. Never say good-bye if you still want to try, never give up if you still feel you can go on, and never say you don't love a person anymore if you can't let go.
Love comes to those who still hope, although they've been disappointed. Also to those who still believe, although they've been betrayed. Need to love those who still love, although they've been hurt before. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
Don't go for looks; they can deceive you. Don't go for wealth; in the end it fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Hope you fine the one that makes you smile.
There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real. Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go, and be what you want to be because you only have one life and one chance to do all the thing you want to do.
May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, enough hope to make you happy and enough money to buy other people gifts.
Always put yourself in others shoes, if you feel it hurts you, it probably hurt the other person as well. A careless word may kindle strife, a cruel word may wreck a life, a timely word may level stress, a loving word may heal and bless. Words are stronger than people may realize, watch what you say because with one word a life can be lost or a life can be spared.
The beginning of love is to let those we love be just they, and not twist them with our own image. Otherwise, we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them. The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes their way.
Happiness tries for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched, and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a tear. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can't go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches. When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.
I find it true yet hurting.

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